he Holiday season is fast approaching. Three major holidays (Thanksgiving, Christmas and NYE, all within ~1 month of each other).
How can you use the occasion to your advantage?
Luckily, the holidays offer a few advantages when it comes to meeting women:
1. Around this time of year people feel the holiday spirit. If you think that sounds corny, that makes two of us . But the fact is most people feel more receptive and just friendlier overall around the holidays. Sure, Christmas shopping can be stressful, but overall this season is more about family and friends (and relationships) and less about school and career. That’s good news for you. A big part of communicating with a woman is taking her on an emotional ride, getting her mind off of her daily routine and away from professional preoccupations. During the holidays, that work is partly done for you, so take advantage of it.
2. Because the holidays are a particularly family- and social-oriented time, single women are more aware of the lack of a man in their lives. Her family asks her about her love life and urges her to get a boyfriend even on adultfrinendfinder. She sees all her friends with their significant others while she attends parties by herself. Women feel that social pressure way more than we do. That doesn’t mean she’ll jump in the sack with just anyone, but it does mean she’ll be particularly receptive to a charming guy who knows what he’s doing. A holiday party is like a dance class: if a beautiful woman comes alone, she’s most likely single and looking.
3. The holiday commercial frenzy means more people are out and about shopping. The holidays are primed for day game. This is a great opportunity to approach women whom you would normally have a harder time meeting. Almost everyone takes part in some sort of gift-exchanging tradition or attends/throws dinner parties. Those things involve a ton of shopping. So even the busiest girls, who spend most of the year working and don’t go to bars and clubs very often, will be out shopping around this time — if you think that category only includes nerds, think again; many professional models and actresses report that lifestyle, in addition to all sorts of sexy business women, doctors, nurses, etc. And since they’re not out that much, especially at night, they don’t get approached that often and don’t have a shield built up. Jackpot.
Oh, and one last way you can use the holidays to your advantage: mass text your holiday wishes in an upbeat or original way to all your dead numbers and long fuses (i.e. girls who text back occasionally but aren’t super-compliant). You’ll be surprised what pops back up onto your radar